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Dreams of our Mothers

Rachel’s Grandmother, Mother, and Great Grandfather.

We are privileged that our customers share their hair stories with us.  A simple email exchange or hair consult often evolves into a highly personal account touching on identity, self-worth, and acceptance.  A common theme in the stories we hear is the link between mothers and daughters.   How mom feels about her own hair plays a pivotal role in how daughters feel about their texture.  Whether the hair types are similar or totally different, the influence is still there.

This Mother’s Day, we’re thinking a lot about ‘hairitage’ and the connections that shape us as both mothers and daughters.   Original Moxie Founder, Rachel, share’s her experience:

Rachel and Mom – Early 70’s.

“Curly hair runs in my family on my Mother’s side.  Though both my Grandmother and Great Grandfather easily embraced their rather unique texture, curly hair became less fashionable during my mother’s generation in the 1950’s and 60’s.   My Grandma accepted her curls but didn’t do much with them other than wearing a short, sculpted shape and brushing it out.  There certainly wasn’t any special knowledge or knack that got passed on to my mother.  After a brief heyday for afros in the 1970’s, my mom relaxed and straightened her hair through through most of my childhood.   Having never learned what products or techniques to use to maintain her curls,  she did what she felt she had to to keep it looking nice.

Rachel Age 6 After Cutting Her ‘Bangs’.

Despite my mother’s moral support and love,  I took an early dislike to my own curls starting around the age of 5 or 6.  Unlike my mother and grandmother, I did not accept my hair and, in fact, grew to despise it as a mark of everything that was wrong with me as a human being.  If only I had straight, smooth hair!  I would be pretty, boys would like me, and I would fit in. That’s how it seemed to my childhood, and later teen, brain.    My campaign of ‘self-improvement’ began with chopping off my hair to create ‘bangs’ that went to the middle of my head and continued through my twenties when I would religiously relax, flat-iron, and dye my hair to make it something – anything! – other than what it was.

 

Rachel’s Daughter – Age 6 after giving herself a trim.

Fast forward to my early forties, when I had finally embraced my texture and even gone on to create a business around it. All my pride came crashing down when my adopted daughter gave herself the same cut at the same age!  Like me, she too really hated her hair and wanted it to ‘hang down’.  Unlike me, her early hair life was all about weave, braids, and beads.  In her foster home, your hair wasn’t done if it was worn out or curly.  She was already showing signs of traction alopecia around her hairline by the age of 4.  With the best of intentions, I quickly transitioned her to curly-only looks, not wanting to accept that she did not see herself as beautiful in her natural state.  Her impromptu haircut was a low point in that journey (though I soon heard from other mothers that there’s just something about that age with scissors and hair!).  I despaired that she would, like me, be in her thirties before she fully accepted her natural texture.

To my surprise, in 2nd Grade, she finally became proud of her hair and now boasts of how many people want to touch it because it looks so cool.  What turned the tide?  I couldn’t tell you. Hopefully, all my determined de-programming and curl love paid off.  I think it was also acceptance on the part of her peers and open verbal appreciation by other adult role models.

My take-away from the experience is that the old cliche about it taking a village is really true.  The mother-daughter relationship is key because that sets the stage for our early perceptions of beauty and self-perception.  But we all need to collectively mother one another by modeling self-love and providing positive feedback and encouragement.”

What is your ‘hairitage’?  Did your mother play a central role in how you feel about your hair?  We’d love to hear from you!

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Origin(al) Story: Shape Shifter Re-forming Creme

The Winter of My Discontent

In the WinterRachel - Before Shape Shifter of 2007, I was tangled up, literally, in a daily battle with my hair.  I had finally succeeded in growing my hair to shoulder length (a major accomplishment) and, after 15 years, had transitioned away from chemical relaxers.  I wanted to embrace my curly, thick texture, but my hair felt like straw! I tried everything from Baby Oil and Vaseline to the leading salon products for curly hair  to moisturize my porous locks, all to no avail.  Around the time this picture was taken,   my frustration had morphed into action.  My head first plunge into the world of DIY hair products began a two-year journey that would ultimately give rise to Original Moxie.   During my early research, I stumbled upon a description of floral waxes that highlighted their rich phospholipid content and ability to penetrate the skin at uniquely high rates.  Curious if they could do the same thing for hair as they could for skin, I purchased a small sample and began experimenting.

A Star is Born

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This is how my brain, workshop, and notes look when I’m creating.  While the chaos is a bit more managed these days, a neat worker I am not.

 

I had already had some success with Flax Seed Gel, which helped to define my hair without crunch and flaking, but I needed something else to deal with the moisture issue.  What if I combined the penetrating and emollient properties of floral wax with the control and definition of a gel?  It took a few attempts to get it right.  My early efforts, including the one you see here, were too gloppy and coated the hair with a dulling crust.  But when I finally got the right balance of gel and emollients, the results were magical.  I remember practically jumping for joy after seeing the results in my own hair and gleefully boasting of my success to family and friends.  Since that day, I have never waivered from my dedication to this product.  It’s what I use every time I style my own hair and, while I still experiment on myself, it’s Shape Shifter I come back to every time.

This is one of those creations that continues to bring me joy, particularly when I see others experience that ‘OMG!’ moment for themselves.  The most common reaction is something like ‘I didn’t know my hair could look like this!’.  Seeing the natural beauty in your own hair is truly awe inspiring, particularly after a lifetime of struggle.  There is an alchemy that happens when the right ingredients come together just so.  Add to that the transformative power of an effective moisturizer and it’s truly magical.

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Beyond Hair Typing

Ethnic Beauty

Close your eyes and describe your hair.  What comes to mind?  Chances are, it’s a mixture of words like ‘curly,’ ‘thick,’ ‘dry,’ ‘oily,’ ‘straight,’ etc.  Could you describe your hair with just one adjective?  No – at least not completely.  This simple exercise demonstrates a profound fact:  our hair is complex.

The Andre Walker Hair Typing System was one of the first and most widely accepted methods to categorize hair using a system of letters and numbers.  The ‘Walker System’, as it is known, primarily describes curl pattern and ranges from 1A, which is totally straight, to 4C, which is tightly coiled or curled.  Although wildly popular in the curly community, this system has generated an increasing amount of controversy, due to the fact that those with textured hair are beginning to question the wisdom of categorizing hair on curl pattern alone.  While the simplicity of the system offers convenience and accessibility, it also glosses over many important characteristics, like texture, porosity, and dryness and places undue importance on curl pattern.

Identifying your curl pattern is helpful, but it’s not the whole story.  To really understand the hair, we need to listen to what it’s telling us.  The next time you’re tempted to describe your hair in terms of curl pattern or perceived deficits, think instead of what your hair likes and does not like.  Does it prefer heavier, richer products?  Does it look best on the second day after a wash?  Do products tend to build up on the outside of the hair or absorb easily into it?  The answers to these questions give you a simple and straightforward way to understand your hair, without getting bogged down in labels and numbers.

At Original Moxie, everything from our product development to our 3D Diagnostic System is designed around all the messy details that make your hair unique. We do not fit our clients into boxes or label them with one-dimensional tags.  Instead, we encourage you to ‘think outside the curl’ and see your hair for what it truly is.

Have questions about your own hair type and want to find out more?  Contact Original Moxie Founder, Rachel Blistein,  for a free, personalized consultation at rachel@originalmoxie.com.

 

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Original Roots Tour: Ohio Recap

ORT Ohio - Rachel's Family

L to R: Original Moxie’s founder’s grandmother, mother, & great grandfather.

Our second expedition for our Original Roots Tour was to Yellow Springs, Ohio!  This was an important stop in many ways! The roots of Rachel’s hair (and by extension, Original Moxie) spring from Yellow Springs.  Rachel’s grandmother Martha Porter, nee Mcconaughey, lived in Yellow Springs for much of her life and was her oldest living relative who also carried the curly hair gene. Yellow Springs also has a long history of racial diversity, dating back to the mid-nineteenth century*.  Though Rachel’s curls came by way of her Irish ancestry, her tight curls were nothing unusual in this integrated tight-knit community.

ORT Ohio Rachel Applies Product

Our first stop was at the Yellow Springs Senior Center where we had the pleasure of meeting many wonderful women. Rachel began with a talk on how to care for mature hair. We then moved on to hair demos and rousing conversations on how hair our changes as we age. Above is Rachel demonstrating the magnificent volumizing properties of Sweet Poof. Stay tuned for more from this talk!

ORT Yellow Springs Street Fair

Our final stop in Ohio was at the semi-annual Yellow Springs Street Fair. From our booth we were able to hear from new and old fans alike! In addition to the engaging conversations, we had hair demos as well as an essential oil scent station. All in all, a great way to start our summer!

*”A History of Racial Diversity”, Diane Chiddister, Yellow Springs News, February 4, 2010

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Original Roots Tour: Ohio

Yellow Springs Street Fair Invite

The second leg of our Original Roots Tour will take us to Yellow Springs, Ohio!  This is an important stop in many ways. Original Moxie Founder, Rachel’s family tree (and curly hair) are rooted in the quaint and verdant village of Yellow Springs.

We invite you to come say hello as we host an interactive booth at the Yellow Springs Street Fair being held this Saturday, June 14th from 9AM to 5PM.  You can find us near the corner of Corry St and Xenia Ave, in front of The Winds Cafe.

In addition to special discounts, we’ll be offering styling demos and an essential oil scent  station. We’d love your input as we develop fragrances for the new products we have in the works.  See you there!

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Original Roots Tour: Baltimore Recap

Myra & Angela at La Paix Herb FarmOur first expedition for our Original Roots Tour has now come to an end. Our whirlwind adventure was invigorating; we’re excited for more. We started off the DMV leg of our trip by visiting Myra and her apprentice Angela of La Paix Herb Farm, shown above.Rachel demonstrating at Oasis SalonWe were lucky enough to attend a Curly Hair Artistry symposium at Oasis Hair Salon. Above is Original Moxie founder Rachel demonstrating the best amount of product to use.

Photos with Rachel at the Meet & GreetWe were also lucky enough to meet several OM fans, such as Kahlilia, at our meet & greet! Getting the chance to mingle with fans and hear their experiences was priceless.

Group shot at FiddleheadsOur final stop in the DMV area was at Fiddleheads Salon in DC. It was super wonderful to meet and work with such wonderful ladies!

Watch this space for more from our tour!

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Cruelty Free Products

Moby and Maybelle!

Being beautiful shouldn’t come at the expense of other living beings – it’s as simple as that. We’re committed to a completely Cruelty Free product development process and have been certified by the Coalition for Consumer Information on Cosmetics’ Leaping Bunny Program! You can rest assured that our products comply with Leaping Bunny’s exacting standards which ensure that “no new animal testing is used in any phase of product development by the company, its laboratories, or suppliers.”

Aside from animal welfare issues, cosmetic animal tests also have scientific limitations whose results may not be relevant to humans. Cosmetic testing not carried out on animals often combine human cell based tests and advanced computer models, whose results take far less than the months and years that outdated animal testing requires. These updated modern techniques to test the safety of cosmetics also have the benefit of not harming others for our beauty.

Above are two of our beloved, always inspiring animal friends – Moby and Maybelle, both rescues from the local Humane Society. Their sweet and joyful personalities remind us every day why we choose to be cruelty free 🙂 Tell us! Why do you choose cruelty free?

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Announcing the Original Roots Tour!

Original Moxie's Original Roots Tour

We’re celebrating our 5th year of business with a series of journeys to connect with our roots. This means meeting with you, our customers, who are the inspiration for our problem-solving hair care formulations! We’ll also be visiting growers and spotlighting the natural ingredients that make our products so effective and unique. As we write about and film our adventures, you’ll see us pop up in all kinds of places, getting to know what makes each of us an original.

Our travels will commence with a visit to the East Coast this May, and will last for just over a year so that we’ll have time to visit all parts of the USA, developing meaningful connections along the way. Chime in! Where would you like to see us visit?

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Hair Does Not A Lady Make

Fragrance and beauty blogger Carrie Meredith, author of eyeliner on a cat, shares her thoughts with OM on hair, identity, and “the grass is always greener” syndrome.  Her writing is fresh, her observations keen, and her style fierce.  This inspired aesthete is definitely one to watch!

Carrie_1xHow would you describe your relationship to your hair?  Does it play a significant role in your view of yourself?

Most of the time, especially during the day, I don’t think about my hair very much because it’s up in a ponytail or a headband while I’m working. When I wash it and style it, I have fun with it. Until a few days ago, my hair was obscenely long, and I just decided to cut it myself. I took off about six inches, and I feel so much better! It’s still long, but I feel more like myself because I don’t have to struggle with it anymore. My hair is a source of happiness for me, much like other aspects of beauty, like skin care and cosmetics.

What do you love most about your hair?

It’s thick, wavy and black, and it plays up my pale skin and dark eyes and eyebrows.

How big of a role does your hair play in the aesthetic sensibility and persona?  Did you shape your hair to fit your style or did your hair shape your style?

Neither. My hair is my personal style, which is also evident when I have no clothes on at all. My story is told through my tattoos and scars, and the few pieces of jewelry that I never take off. Hair is not permanent and is a glorious way to express oneself, and I enjoy the natural state of hair and also caring for it naturally—that’s a part of who I am too.

Your hair is fairly long at the moment, but have you ever worn your hair extremely short?  Do you feel more attractive when it is one way or the other?

Oh yes! I’ve had extremely close cropped hair, and I loved it. I often think that I’d like to do that again, but the upkeep is too expensive. I couldn’t even be bothered to go get a trim in a year—I just cut it myself. I’m not attached to my hair in a sentimental way like some women are— I could lose it all tomorrow and not be very upset. I’m currently suffering from “the grass is greener” syndrome. Actually, I think I was born with that syndrome!

How did you feel about your hair when you were growing up?  Was there a particular moment (or moments) when you recall your perception of your hair and yourself changing?

When I think about my hair as I was growing up, I remember my mother trying to get all the tangles out of my hair, and how I’d cry and cry. It upset her that it hurt me so much, but I was just so prone to tangles! Unfortunately, I still am. If I’m working on a bunch of tough tangles, I will still cry! It was my first lesson in life that sometimes you have to suffer for beauty. You don’t have to like it, though!

Does your hair make you feel more or less confident when you meet new people?  Do you feel that it stands out as a signifier of who you are?

I think my hair adds to my social confidence.  I don’t feel like I need to wear much makeup—just a bold matte lip, and a riot of wavy tresses takes over from there. I’m in  the process of growing out my bangs- and I’ve had those Bettie Page bangs for years—probably more than 10 years. People are so used to seeing me with them, and I’m curious how quickly they’ll notice the change. I have a vision of my hair in mind, and I really want to try life without bangs again!

What issues (if any) do you continue to grapple with when it comes to your hair as it relates to your overall appearance and sense of self?

Well, I mentioned the bangs- how they had become such a well-known signature for me—strangers would approach me and tell me how much I looked just like Bettie Page, or Pauly Perrette or Dita Von Teese…. anyone famous you can think of with bangs.  I do not look like these women. They are all stunning, and I don’t have anything close to what you could deem self-esteem issues, but what those words translated to in my head was “your bangs are outshining your entire face.” After all those years of hearing about it, I realized that I resented it, hence the desire to be rid of them. I unknowingly put myself in a box because of my bangs.

You are a very scent-oriented individual with a sensitive, sophisticated palette.  Hair is such a sensual part of the body, and infusing it with fragrance is such an ancient tradition. Given your attunement to fragrance do you find that you are swayed to like or dislike a product based on its aroma?

Emphatically YES! I hate (equally emphatically) fake, perfumey scented hair products. There is a wave of super high-end fragrance sprays meant specifically for hair, and that’s actually pretty cool, but really frivolous. I get off on the natural scent and individual qualities of ingredients, no matter how weird it may smell to others. I feel the same way about the skincare products I use. If they are fragranced with natural essences or have no added fragrance, I am more attracted to them and I want to use them more. It’s a huge part of why I look forward to using my hair and skin care products so much. Natural, quality ingredients are very sexy.

What are your favorite Original Moxie products and how do they fit within your beauty and aroma rituals?

Oh, my favorites! I’m going to attempt to control my list here, but it will not be easy. My greatest love is Get Clean! Shampoo. It was my first experience with a no-poo product, and it’s just divine. It always surprises me how clean it gets my hair when it really acts like a conditioner as well. It’s slippery, smells wonderful and it’s super-luxe. It’s my secret weapon. I fell in love so hard with it that I felt embarrassed and utterly disappointed by the other shampoos I had, so I tossed them.
My other must-haves:
Intense Quench Conditioner: It’s minty and invigorating, and it leaves my hair incredibly soft and shiny.
Everyday Leave-In Conditioner:  I use this on wet and dry hair… I use it for everything! It’s the most versatile hair product I own.
Shape Shifter Re-Forming Creme: Speaking of versatility, Shape Shifter is right up there too. It’s a defining cream for curls or waves, you can use it prior to a blow-out, on dry hair to get rid of frizz or seal split ends, the list goes on.  Its name is perfect—it allows you to transform your wet hair into anything you desire. It leaves no stiffness or stickiness behind. Brilliant!

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It IS Easy Being Green

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Karley today

Blogger Karley Ziegler Mott Finds Beauty Bliss in Conscious Living.
A Certified Aromatherapist with a long professional background as an Esthetician & Make Up Artist, Karley Ziegler Mott discovered make up at age 14 and never looked back. She translated her experience with major lines such as Lancome, Clinique, and Laura Mercier into the development of her own line of skin care which was featured in Martha Stewart Body + Soul magazine.
In addition to her love of beauty products, Karley is also passionately committed to natural, organic living. In 2007 she founded Chic & Green, a blog that allows her to share her love of all things green and beautiful with the world.

We discovered Karley’s blog shortly after launching Original Moxie, and she quickly became one of our biggest and most vocal fans!  As an entrepreneur, beauty product fanatic, mother, and self-proclaimed ‘Liberal Feminist,’ Karley embodies many of the personae of today’s modern woman. Having so much in common with Original Moxie Founder Rachel Blistein, she was the perfect candidate to kick off our series on Hair & Identity.

How would you describe your relationship to your hair? Does it play a significant role in your view of yourself? It does play a role in how I view myself. When my hair cooperates and it looks great, it does make me have more confidence. For example, in that awkward stage I just went through from pixie to bob, I definitely felt more self conscious about my hair.

Karley's Pixie Cut - July 2012

Karley’s Pixie Cut – July 2012

How big of a role does your hair play in how you feel about your appearance? I would have to say it plays a major role. Hair is highly visible. When it looks great, it has an affect on my self esteem.
You are fortunate enough to be able to wear your hair straight or curly.  Do you notice a difference in your attitude or confidence when it is one way or the other? Yes– when I wear it straight and more sleek, I feel super confident, polished, and refined. When I wear it with curls, I feel more carefree, less serious, a little bit more playful.
Image is such a big part of social media.  How has being a public figure via your blog changed the way you feel about your hair?  Do you feel more pressure to look good all the time since launching your blog? I do feel more pressure. A couple years back, I started having people recognize me for my blog, saying, “Hey, you’re the Chic & Green blogger.” I definitely worry more about being put together all the time.
Green living seems to be a core part of who you are as a person.  How does your commitment to using environmentally-friendly products affect how you style and care for your hair?  Do you ever feel that your commitment to natural principals and products comes into conflict with what is convenient or desirable?   No. Fortunately, there are so many wonderful eco-friendly products now. It used to be an issue. I am able to use natural products from head to toe now. This makes me feel great because I no longer have to compromise.
How old were you when you first developed your own unique sense of style?  Is your hair a big part of that style?  I would have to say that I really came into my own in college. I really embraced my own tastes and I think I will always be the blonde with some form of short hair, always wearing earrings and a stack of bracelets, and never without lipstick on. That’s just me.
What do you love most about your hair?  I love how thick it is. I have very thick hair and I love that.

What issues (if any) do you continue to grapple with when it comes to your hair as it relates to your overall appearance and sense of self?  My own personal hair issue is becoming frustrated when it is hot and humid. It gets a bit frizzy and feels heavy–that’s when I go and get a pixie without fully thinking it through 🙂
What are your favorite Original Moxie products?  I absolutely must have Straight Up™! Now that my hair is getting longer and I am flat ironing it again, I am reaching for it every morning.  I also swear by Featherweight™. I love the soft scent and the fact that it leaves my hair feeling silky, but never weighed down.  Sweet Poof is another favorite.  When I want some “oomph” at the roots and crown for a fuller look, this is my go-to styling aid!